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Mistakes You Must Avoid When Purchasing An Engagement Ring

posted on: Jan 14, 2022

There aren’t many moments in our lives where every single detail counts as much as a marriage proposal. Not only does the time and place matter when you drop down on a knee and ask your partner for her hand. But more importantly, the engagement ring. Beyond rendering a quick impression, it also symbolizes your enduring love and affection.  

Because of the considerable stress and anxiety associated with it, some might wing it and purchase the first thing they see. But don’t do it this way. Instead, approach it with careful thought and consideration so your partner gives you the answer that you’re looking to get. With that said, here are some mistakes you need to avoid when buying an engagement ring for your proposal.

  1. Not creating a budget

It’s not a good idea to make any purchases until you’ve created a budget. The reason for this is that you may spend more than you can afford and put yourself in dire financial straits. As a result, you won’t have enough saved up for the wedding if you put it all on the engagement ring. However, you could also shortchange your bride-to-be with the piece. Either way, both scenarios aren’t good.

So come up with a number that you’re comfortable with before you go shopping for a ring. Having a limit to what you can willingly spend won’t just keep you from breaking the bank. It’ll also narrow down your options to the most ideal pieces.

  1. Shopping at the last minute

Marriage proposals should never be spontaneous decisions. Therefore, you must ensure that you have enough time to prepare for it accordingly. Doing so won’t just take off the pressure of getting everything planned out. But it will also leave you less room for mistakes, especially when it comes to shopping for an engagement ring.  

When choosing an engagement ring, don’t forget that you can also use the ring for your wedding. Instead of buying the rings twice, you can shop for bridal rings or mens wedding bands and use them as engagement rings at once. Doing it this way also means you won’t be shopping for your wedding rings at the last minute.

Rushed decisions often lead to oversights and compromise the chance to find the perfect ring. It’s advisable to start the search well in advance to allow time for research, exploration, and customization if desired.

  1. Not familiarizing yourself with diamonds 

Let’s face it. As guys, the last thing we care about is jewelry. However, it’s unwise not to do your homework on diamonds, especially when you’re about to propose to your better half. So don’t buy on impulse. Do research and familiarize yourself with it. Understand the four Cs — color, cut, carat, and clarity. In this way, you’ll keep yourself from spending too much on a piece that may not deserve the price and get your money’s worth.

  1. Sticking to a single store

It’s a general rule of thumb never to stick to a single store when buying any piece of jewelry, especially an engagement ring. If you do, you’ll limit your options and likely spend more than you need. If you live in Washington, for example, it’s imperative you search for jewelry stores in Washington DC first. The more options you give yourself, the greater your chances for finding the perfect ring at a price you’ll be happy to pay.


For your wedding proposal to go as planned, you need to make sure that all details are given the attention that they deserve. This is especially true for the engagement ring. By steering clear of the mistakes laid out above, you’ll get the piece that will fill your partner with joy and significantly improve your chances of getting a resounding yes.

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